Recommendations of my son
Adapted from "The King's Business Magazine" published by the Institute of Biblical Los Angeles
• Do not spoil me: I know I should not have anything you ask. I just want to test you.
• Do not be afraid to be stern with me, I prefer it. This allows me to know what they are valid.
• Do not use force with me: this teaches me that power is all that matters. I will be more willing to be guided.
• Do not be inconsistent: this confuses me. He forces me to make every effort to get away whenever I can.
• Do not make promises you may not be able to maintain: it would decrease my confidence in you.
• Do not give in to my provocations when I say and do things just to embarrassed, because they would try to have other similar victories.
• Do not be too upset when I say: "I hate you" does not mean that. I do it because you are sad for what I've done.
• Do not make me feel smaller than it is: rimedierei and acted bigger than it is.
• Do not do things for me that I can do alone: this makes me feel like a kid and I could continue to keep you in my service.
• Do not let my "bad habits" get me a good deal of your attention: what encourages me to continue with those.
• Do not correct me in front of people: I will pay much more attention if you talk quietly with me in private.
• Do not try to discuss my behavior in the heat of an argument: of course my hearing is not very good at that time and my cooperation is even worse.
• Do not try to lecture me: would you be surprised to see how well I know what is right and wrong.
• Do not make me feel that my mistakes are sins: I have to learn to make mistakes without feeling of not being honest.
• Do not grumble again: if you do I will defend myself by pretending to be deaf.
• Do not demand explanations for my wrong behavior: I really do not know why I did it.
• Do not put too much strain on my sincerity: I am easily intimidated enough to tell lies.
• Do not forget that I love to experiment: I learn from this so please bear.
• Do not protect me from consequences: I need to learn from experience.
• Not paying much attention to my small ailments: I could learn to enjoy poor health for your attention.
• Do not shut me up when I'm honest questions: I would stop and try to seek my information elsewhere. Do not answer questions without feeling silly: I would just keep you busy with me.
• Do not ever think to look ridiculous if you apologize to me, excuse me feel surprisingly warm with you.
• Never carry to be perfect and infallible: it gives me an excuse to not follow you.
• Do not worry about the little time we spend together is "how" we spend that matters.
• Do not let my fears arouse your anxiety: I would become more fearful. Show me the courage.
• Do not forget that I can not thrive without understanding and encouragement, but I need not tell you, right?
• Remember: I learn more by example than by a reprimand.
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